Experts in crime scene cleanup feel heartbroken whenever they enter a scene where a violent crime, ghastly motor accident, murder, homicide, or suicide has occurred, resulting in the death of an individual. If it’s a suicide scene, the first question that comes to mind is: Why? Many people feel lonely and lost despite being in the midst of people, and for some, the only way out is by committing suicide.
You just don’t know how important it is to give attentive ears to a depressed family member, co-worker, or loved one. Just by spending time with such a person, you may just save a life. Learn to always be there for your friends and loved ones.
If you notice changes in someone’s attitude or behavior, here are some of the things to do.
1. Sit down with them and Listen
Many people suffering one form of depression just need someone that will give them listening ears. A depressed individual feels lonely and unseen, even if they are in the midst of a crowd. At some point, they might even feel the need to stay far away from people as they begin to find solace in seclusion. With no one to talk to, they start to harbor the thoughts that the world will be a better place without them. No matter what they have to say, give them listening ears. Don’t judge them.
2. Listen to Your Instinct
Is there any unusual behavioral change your friend or loved one exhibits lately? Is something within telling you to ask questions? Don’t hesitate to speak with the fellow. Reach out to find out what they are going through at the time. It is best to risk getting on their nerves than finding out a couple of days later about their demise. Put that call through today. Find out what they are going through and find out ways to lessen the burden.
3. Render Help
When in a depressed situation, it is hard to know where to turn for help. You begin to wonder if anyone on the face of the planet cares about them. Ask if there is something you can do to help them. If you figure out an obvious need, try to see if you can resolve it. Sometimes, all we need to save a life is by offering a bit of help. This help can be something as little as fixing up breakfast, doing house chores, shopping for groceries, providing shelter, babysitting, or simply hanging out, alone or with friends.
4. Get a Therapist
Hiring a therapist or counselor can be financially draining, but if you can afford it, go for it. A good counselor can help a depressed individual with suicidal thoughts. However, it is important that you leave the decision to contact the therapist in their hands. Don’t contact the therapist’s office on their behalf.
Depression is one of the major reasons why people commit suicide. Always try to lend a helping hand to struggling individuals today. Act fast. If you fail to act fast, then you will have to reach out to a crime scene cleanup expert to help clean and sanitized a scene where suicide has just occurred.